tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8327448783413436603.post7138430333079101828..comments2023-07-27T05:20:47.641-07:00Comments on Mom of Four Angels: Why So Tough, Katie?Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16536962145323635965noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8327448783413436603.post-65421764655927289732010-11-12T18:13:39.955-08:002010-11-12T18:13:39.955-08:00*hugs* Thank you.*hugs* Thank you.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536962145323635965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8327448783413436603.post-10847407558455362262010-11-12T13:23:37.232-08:002010-11-12T13:23:37.232-08:00take it (your turn) and cry. Even if you have to g...take it (your turn) and cry. Even if you have to go away and do it, although I think you should be able to cry in front of others and I think they should have a touch of compassion about it (more than just a touch). You are grieving two incredibly close losses (so sorry it has been a year since your little Jimmy went home to heaven) and I am sure your grief is still very raw. I cannot compare because it was not the same as a baby's loss, but when my mom died, I grieved alone because hubby didn't really want to talk about it, etc and it was HARD! Thankfully God put one of my friends from where we used to live in my life to grieve with me as she had recently lost a parent a few months before. Grieve and don't grieve alone. I think it is "perfectly natural" to cry and to want the comfort of others. I'd sit there and hold your hand and let you cry if I lived closer.<br /><br />hugs to you, I'm so sorry it has been such a tough season for you<br /><br />bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.com